I am a FEMALE DOMINANT of supremacy. I embraced the BDSM lifestyle 15 years ago.
What a slave/sub means to me. A slave or submissives fulfillment to me is giving all he has to arrive at the plateau that is required and expected. Pain does become pleasure and the limits one can handle today quickly becomes unfulfilled tomorrow. However, it takes a DOMINANT with experience to know HER inferiors responses and has the compassion to push, but not destroy, the inner desire to expand and become the servant capable of achieving the plateau desired.